Readers around the world have used Meetup to make their dream book club a reality. The following clubs have gotten creative to build communities that gather regularly to chat about books. Learn how these non-traditional book clubs are bending all of the rules:

You don’t have to read the same book in your book clubs.

To some, reading a required book feels like an assignment rather than a fun hobby. When Samantha created The “Choose Your Own Book” Book Club in Melbourne, Australia, she gave members the freedom to choose their own books. “It’s a book club without the homework,” Samantha explains. “A choose-your-own-book club allows people to come together to share their passion for stories.” 

Sally, co-organizer, adds, “Even though we don’t have a set book, our group never runs out of things to discuss! We don’t mind what you read, we want to hear about it [and] explore the themes it brings up with you.” This style of book club is great for groups who have varying taste in books, but also want to chat about what they’re reading with others! 

You can discuss more than just books in your book clubs.

Books can certainly teach us about new topics, but you don’t have to limit the conversation books! In Seattle, Social Equity Study Group meets monthly to discuss equity and social justice, but branches out beyond the written word. Incorporating podcasts, documentaries, YouTube videos, and more into their studies, this group’s multimedia approach is engaging, adaptable, and meets people where they are. A mixed media style “book” club is a great way to dive deeper into any topic and learn together.

You can take it to the trails!

A book club can be adventurous! In Birmingham, Michigan, Hike with Avid Readers, Learners, and Thinkers gathers monthly for a hike to chat about their recent reads while getting some exercise and fresh air. “I enjoy reading and hiking, which both tend to be solitary activities. By combining them in a Meetup group, we turn them into a social activity where we can meet a variety of new people,” Norm, the organizer, explains. 

In this group, attendees are expected to arrive ready to discuss what they’ve been reading, but they don’t have to all read the same book. “By sharing what we are reading during the hike, we overcome the awkwardness of starting a conversation with a stranger,” Norm adds. If you love the outdoors, getting active, and one-on-one conversations, this style of book club might be for you.

You don’t have to talk.

An introvert’s dream, the Silent Book Club in NYC, Seattle, and online starts events with introductions, followed by an hour of silent reading. Afterward, attendees are invited to share about what they’re reading if they’d like. This optional discussion is similar to a choose-your-own-book club event, but the low-pressure nature of these Meetup events means that anyone who loves to read can join! 

You don’t even have to read the book!

Typically, book club members are supposed to read something in order to participate. In Chicago, the I Haven’t Read the Book Club does away with that expectation. “I was having difficulty finishing the books in time for the book clubs that I signed up for. It was hard to consistently commit to the book clubs I joined, and consistency is key to developing friendships and feeling like you’re ‘part of the club,’” Tierney, the organizer, explains. 

Tierney chooses books that have been turned into movies or books by well-known authors to make it easier for everyone to participate in a discussion. Low-pressure events like these can be great for casual readers looking to build a community around books.

Ready to start your own book club? 

There’s no right or wrong way to organize a book club! Organizers of these book clubs have tips for anyone thinking about starting one: 

Tierney: Figure out exactly what you want to get out of the book club.  If you’re trying to attract a certain demographic (e.g., horror novelists, music lovers, biography bingers), theme your book club in a way that will attract them. If you just want to meet like-minded readers, then start with a book you recently read that really stuck with you. 

Samantha: Group size and acoustics matter! We cap our meetings to no more than 15 people. You don’t want the group to be too big as it’s hard to have one cohesive discussion, plus it gets hard to hear everyone properly. If your group becomes really popular, introduce a small attendance fee. This encourages people to only RSVP if they are truly planning to attend, and it helps pay for organizer fees. 

Norm: Have modest goals for attendance because often the response is small and some people won’t show up. Make sure that you are receiving a net positive benefit from the work that you’ll need to do to organize each event and handle issues as they arise. It needs to be a win-win for you; otherwise, you will burn out. The longer that I run the group, the easier it gets.

Sally: Be open-minded. Some of the perspectives and discussions we’ve had are so thrilling and engaging. I’ve considered things in different ways, learned things, and really listened to experiences and ideas that were new to me.

Share your love of reading with others—start your own book club today.

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Meetup organizers are always looking for interesting and inspiring ways to get their communities together. But sometimes the most effective method is also the simplest: a party! Everyone loves a good party. The fun and informal setting is perfect for celebrating birthdays, holidays, and milestones. Although some of the best parties are thrown for no reason at all other than relaxing and socializing. 

One of the joys of attending a party is making new friends, which is easy to do when everybody’s enjoying themselves in a no-pressure environment. As the host of a party, you have both the responsibility and the privilege of introducing different groups of friends to one another. 

An excellent party is one that feels natural and takes on a life of its own. The conversation is flowing, every guest feels included, and there’s an almost magical buzz in the air. But don’t just cross your fingers hoping to capture lightning in a bottle—there’s plenty you can do to make sure your party is a hit! Follow these guidelines and your party is guaranteed to be a memorable one. 

Tips for planning, throwing, and enjoying a great party 

With just a little effort and some outside-the-box thinking, your party will be a success from start to finish and leave your guests wondering when the next one will be. Here’s some advice to make your party a smash: 

• Pick a date early — The best way to ensure high attendance at your party is by choosing a date and time well in advance. Share the details with your guest list at least a week or two before the party, but no more than a month out. You don’t want to leave too little or too much time between your invitation and the event itself.   

• Consider a theme — Introduce a unique aspect to your party that will get people excited to attend. It can be as simple as preparing a signature cocktail, or as involved as hosting a Greek Gods & Goddesses costume party. The possibilities are endless! Your theme can be expressed in food and drink, decorations, activities, music, attire, and more. Think less about choosing the right theme and just do anything that sounds fun. It won’t make or break the party on its own. 

• Remember music and lighting matter — Have you ever walked into a party, a bar, or a restaurant and felt something was just a little bit off? That little something that’s hard to put your finger on is usually the ambiance. It’s the mood, the atmosphere, the vibe. You can influence these intangible characteristics with a little forethought about music and lighting. Make a playlist beforehand, listen to it, and imagine you’re at the party. Does it feel right? As for lighting, it shouldn’t be too bright or pitch black. Some cheap string lights will go a long way!  

• Remember too much is better than too little — When it comes to refreshments, it’s better to over-prepare. It’s a party, so embrace the excess! Running out of food or drink may be the number one cause of a party losing its momentum.  

• Give people something to do — People like to contribute. Before the party, you could ask invitees to bring food, drink, games, or even items of decor. If a few guests arrive early, make them feel involved by giving them simple tasks to help you set up. During the party itself, you can plan for specific activities that align with your theme, whether it’s a blind wine tasting, a dance-off, a talent show, or anything else suitable for your group.  

• Take an active role in introductions — As the host, you are the bridge connecting different friend groups who may not know each other well, if at all. To get all of these people having a great time together under one roof, you should facilitate introductions, especially if you notice little side groups not interacting with others. People aren’t generally standoffish, they’re probably just a little shy. You can act as a positive social model and help them circulate. 

• Be careful not to micromanage — There’s a subtle difference between good hosting and being overbearing. Once you’ve done your planning for the party and it gets underway, get ready to expect the unexpected and be okay with it. Parties are a living, breathing thing. They rarely go exactly how you think they will. So don’t force anything—if you notice people are really into dancing, don’t kill the momentum with a new activity just because it’s on the docket.   

Ways to practice your party hosting skills  

Be a party researcher and attend some parties! Check out different kinds of events and see what works. Cast a wide net and attend things like this Bollywood Dance Party on the beach in Chicago, a vintage trolley party through the streets of Dallas, or a Denver stoplight party (where the color of your clothes matches your relationship status). 

When you begin hosting parties yourself, start small. Your first event doesn’t have to be a blowout. Dip a toe in with a small get together, then slowly increase the size of the event by asking guests to bring a friend or two next time.  

You can even get hands-on hosting experience by becoming a co-organizer of a Meetup group, so that you’re collaborating with others and the responsibility is shared. 

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A new year has arrived, and with it, a wave of new possibilities. Whether you have specific New Year’s resolutions planned, or you simply want to make some healthy adjustments to your daily life, now is the perfect time to start. The efforts you put in now will go a long way in developing consistent habits throughout 2023, and beyond. 

Making strides toward self-improvement is a great way to be your own friend, both nurturing and challenging yourself along the way. You might even get to know yourself a bit better as you navigate the obstacles and the rewards of your hard work.  

In addition to the stronger bond you form with your best self, committing to self-improvement can also be a highly rewarding social activity, too! Follow this simple guide to get inspired and learn practical tips for self-help that really sticks. 

What to do when there’s room to grow 

Once you’ve identified an area in your life where you could be doing a little better, you’re halfway there. Admitting the need for change isn’t always easy, and you should feel proud for having the courage to be real with yourself.  

At the same time, don’t feel pressured to put yourself in a box. There are tons of different ways to achieve a goal—the important part is being intentional about setting that goal. But, for example, if your aim is to lose 10 pounds, there’s an incredibly wide range of activities you could pursue that’ll help you on your journey. Think everything from kickboxing to cooking classes to volunteering as a dogwalker, and so much more.  

With all that in mind, check out just a few of the endless possibilities that await you this year. You’re sure to discover at least one activity that aligns with your self-improvement goal. 

Learn a new skill    

Make an addition to your life that sparks curiosity and expands your potential. There’s no shortage of communities based around the principle of new skill development, with topics as far-ranging as computer programming and visual art to foreign languages and more. 

For example, if you’ve always wanted to pick up a crafty skill that lets you work with your hands but in a lowkey way, you could learn how to knit with a Meetup group while sampling the best coffee shops in Denver. 

If you want to take your language learning to the next level this year, you could supplement your Duolingo hours with in-person authentic conversation practice. Find a vibrant community like The Chicago Spanish Language Meetup Group y habla con gente amable.  

Pick up a sport  

There’s a group on Meetup for every sport at every level. Hit up a beginner-friendly event for communities practicing sports with lower barriers to entry, such as Brooklyn Outdoor Badminton and New York Dodgeball.  

If you’re looking for a physical activity that’s a little more adventurous, check out groups like Seattle Climbing or the Nashville Hiking Meetup. 

You can even find communities embracing the weirder, sillier, and kitschier side of athletics, such as Spikeball Portland and Brooklyn Ultimate Frisbee Pickup.   

Discover new ways to relax and self-soothe 

The seemingly simple task of relaxation can actually be a big obstacle for a lot of people. Your self-improvement journey could just revolve around finding healthy ways to unwind. Luckily, there are thousands of groups dedicated to this exact purpose, with so many diverse methods for reaching that same ultimate goal of chill. 

For some folks, communities like Boulder Zen Meditation provide a lightly structured framework for intentional periods of mindfulness and reflection. Members in this group, as well as many others like Dallas’s Random Acts of Kindness Volunteer / Non-Profit Meetup and Code for Orlando, find peace of mind by giving back to their local communities, whether that’s through meal delivery programs or something more niche like hacktivism.

Plus, you can always seek out groups like Miami Figure Drawing Saturday Morning Group or Dashing Whippets Running Team whose main topics are inherently relaxing to you.  

Discover a new you with new people   

People who feel like they’re part of a communal public goal often see more success in their New Year’s resolutions. So fast-track your self-improvement by creating a public goal through Meetup! It’s quick and easy to create your own Meetup group and invite others to join you as you devote more time to life-enhancing activities in 2023.

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Book clubs are wonderful (we’re clearly big fans)! But let’s be honest, it would be nice to have an excuse to get together and make new friends that doesn’t come with quite so much prep-work. If you find you aren’t always in the mood for your book club, but you still want an opportunity to gather as a community around a shared activity (and maybe even meet new people!), try one of the following instead:

1. Wine & cheese club

There are two types of people in this world: people who attend book clubs for the book and those who are really there for the wine, snacks, and conversation. If you’re in the latter camp, consider skipping the pretense and straight to the charcuterie board with a wine & cheese club.

Each meeting, pick a few wines to taste and pair with some well-matched cheese (or another food item for those diary-sensitive folks out there). You can create custom scorecards for your guests to rank their favorites or just host an open discussion about what everyone likes/dislikes about each. Take it a step further by creating a unifying theme or activity, such as picking an ultra-specific type of wine and tasting varietals from different regions, or have your guests test their skills as a sommelier with some blind taste tests.

2. Houseplant or gardening club

If you’re someone who entered the pandemic with only a few houseplants and now find yourself living in what is essentially a jungle of leafy friends, this is definitely the club for you! Meet with fellow plant parents to introduce your plant babies (and share any pun-tastic names they may have), discuss care instructions for the more temperamental in your collection, and troubleshoot any persistent or common issues. For those whose green thumbs extend outside, start a gardening club to compare notes on best times for plantings during different seasons within your region or to rotate helping with one another’s yard work. Learn more about how Meetup can help grow your plant passion with this recent Community Matters blog post.

3. Crafting club

Crafty Meetuppers unite! Whether you’re a novice knitter or have spent hours stringing together pieces of jewelry, organizing a group for crafting is a great way to gain inspiration for your next project while also making new friends! Create a group either around an existing hobby or one you’re looking to start, just be sure to set expectations by making the goal of the group clear in the description. Maybe you want to casually learn how to embroider a pillow or dress, but others might want to crochet 100 blankets by Christmas.

4. Subscription box club

If you’ve ever received a subscription box (monthly or quarterly boxes themed around hobbies and intrests such as beauty, food, entertainment, home decor, etc.), you almost certainly know the struggle of attempting to figure out what to do with all the leftover products you have no use for. It’s wasteful to just throw them out, but it’s not always immediately apparent where they can be donated or who might want them. Rather than relegating these products to a lifetime of storage in a closet or basement, organize a group to swap and exchange subscription box products you have no need for.

As an organizer of a subscription box group, you get to decide if you want to limit members to a specific type of subscription box (such as just those for makeup or tea and coffee), or if you’d prefer to open it up more broadly to any type of product from any type of subscription box. Not only does this help clear up clutter in your home, but it’s just one more way to be more environmentally conscious.

5. Dessert (or sweet & salty) club

Whether you’re an expert baker or just someone with a serious sweet tooth, it’s hard to go wrong with a club organized around anything as decadent as desserts. Simply ask members to bake or buy a dessert related to a theme. Themes can range from a type of dessert (think ice cream sundae building or cookies from around the globe), a set of ingredients (like chocolate or pumpkin spice), or something topical and culturally relevant (such as spooky desserts for Halloween). Let your imagination run wild and have fun while eating delicious treats.

Not a sweets person but find the idea compelling? Why not bring the best of both worlds together by making it a sweet and salty club?

6. Mutual aid club

The world can feel a bit intense right now. Try channeling some of that anxious energy into something that is not only productive and beneficial, but also helps foster a real sense of community with a mutual aid club. Never heard of mutual aid? It allows people to come together in order to meet each others’ needs in a mutually beneficial, reciprocal exchange of resources/services. If you’ve ever lent sugar to a neighbor or offered to grab lunch for a co-worker, knowing full well that they’d do the same for you in the future if needed, you’re already familiar with the basic concept behind mutual aid.

Other mutual aid initiatives include clothing swaps, parents forming learning pods when the pandemic forced schools to go virtual, or a sou-sou savings club. The best way to start is to figure out what service or resource your community could benefit from that you can offer to others and then build from there. This Ioby article is especially helpful for more tips and tricks on how to get started.

7. The “catch-all” club

If you can’t decide what sort of club you want to start, but you know you want to start gathering around some sort of shared experience or interest, it sounds like a “catch-all” club (also sometimes referred to as a “little bit of everything” club) is the goldilocks solution! Rather than organizing a group around a single topic or activity, each meeting is a new and different shared experience to enjoy together. Rotate through the ideas shared above or something entirely different, the possibilities are endless.

As you may have gathered from these seven suggestions, the activity that you choose for your group can be as creative as you want! You don’t have to be an expert on a topic to bring people together to have a good time. Start a Meetup group to gather your community today.

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Charisma may be hard to define, but you know it when you see it. Charismatic people have that magnetic quality that seems to attract others in social situations—the conversation flows smoothly both to and from them. 

A unique trait that makes someone “likable” and “easy to talk to,” charisma is about more than just confidence. It’s about being approachable, making a positive first impression, reading social cues gracefully, being your authentic self, and having the verbal ability to make small talk fun. 

In short, charisma—or “rizz,” as Gen Z refers to it these days—is another word for that special something called charm. However, this particular kind of charm isn’t manufactured. In fact, it extends far beyond the surface level. Charismatic people are often emotionally intelligent, sensitive, and just as interested in genuinely connecting with others as they are in presenting the best version of themselves.  

Although charismatic people make it look so easy and natural, this characteristic is typically developed over time, through lots of experience. The reason people keep working on it is because charisma is incredibly valuable in so many arenas, from job interviews and professional leadership to dating and making friends. This simple guide will show you how to put together the fundamental building blocks of charisma.  

Boost your charisma with these simple habits 

Broadly speaking, you can break down the social skill of charisma into three main categories: body language, friendliness, and authenticity. 

Becoming fluent in body language  

Like any form of communication, body language is a two-way street. It’s not only about reading other people’s signs and signals, but mastering your own, so that you’re in control of how you present yourself through non-verbal cues.  

The most basic skills here are eye contact and smiling. Keep in mind that these behaviors aren’t all-or-nothing—what you want to aim for is a healthy balance that shows confidence and conveys your interest in your conversation partner, without being too intense. Just making a point to meet the glance of your conversation partner with a warm expression now and then will go a long way.  

You can also focus on facing people head-on while talking and listening, as well as gesturing while you talk to increase your sense of engagement. 

Exuding a friendly aura 

At a recent Meetup Live event, friendship expert and best-selling author Dr. Marisa G. Franco described how you can set yourself up for successful connections with new people. One of her key tips is to approach every encounter with a positive mindset, believing that people will like you. This kind of “benefit of the doubt” approach can help reduce your anxiety and indecision. Plus, when you’re feeling comfortable and open to possibility, that feeling is infectious! 

Other tips for creating a friendly atmosphere include: 

• Introducing yourself
• Greeting newcomers to the conversation 
• Keeping the mood light
• Asking questions and follow-ups 
• Giving your full attention
• Making an effort to remember people’s names  

Being your authentic self 

Coming across as genuine and relatable makes a big difference in any social setting. When someone tries to be more appealing by creating a manufactured version of their personality, it usually backfires. People generally have a strong “radar” that exposes this kind of performative interaction. On the other hand, when you embrace who you are, it helps other people see that you’re self-secure, trustworthy, and willing to be vulnerable. 

Practice being charismatic through healthy and fun social activities 

Like any other skill, charisma takes practice. From those people who seem naturally gifted to the late bloomers on the social scene, everyone who wants to be likable needs opportunities to learn and grow. 

To put yourself in more social situations, the easiest thing you can do is take full advantage of the events that naturally cross your path, like birthday parties, work functions, family occasions, and happy hours. Then, you can take it up a level by actually seeking out social activities you might not be aware of yet. Meetup events are a great resource for this because there’s something for everyone, with a huge range of interests and hobbies being explored both in person and online. 

For example, you could do anything from Knitting Around New York to capturing scenic Miami beaches on film with The Art of Photography International. Maybe you want to drink local brews and learn about ancient philosophy with Nashville Stoics, or simply meet fellow dog owners and spend some time outdoors with San Diego Dog Meetup – #PackWalk. 

For the purposes of practicing your charisma, the topic of each event is just the icing on the cake. As long as you’re getting together with new people, giving yourself a healthy challenge, and making genuine connections, you’re doing it right! You can even create your own Meetup group and invite others to join you for a laid-back hang, an awesome adventure, or something in between.

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When you’re trying to meet new people, motivating yourself to attend some kind of social event is half the battle. But once you arrive, the next step—chatting up the people you meet—can be a little intimidating, especially for those who are a bit more introverted and a bit less talkative to begin with.

Striking up a conversation with folks you don’t know is a valuable skill both personally and professionally. You can open doors to new friendships and make a good impression on your colleagues. Overall, you’ll feel a more rewarding sense of connection with your fellow human beings.

Like any skill, navigating the intricacies of small talk takes practice and patience, but you’ll be surprised how quickly progress comes. With a little effort and a few helpful hints, you’ll be chatting the day away at your next Meetup event!

Tips for making conversation with people you don’t know yet 

When you find yourself in a social setting with somebody you just met, the best advice is simply not to panic. It’s perfectly normal to feel a flutter of nerves at first, but going overboard with worry is a surefire way to grind any conversation to a halt. Calm those nerves by keeping in mind that you and the other person already have some common ground by attending this particular Meetup event. 

Start off by exploring what piqued your interest about this event. For example, if the Meetup group you’re socializing with is a book club, language exchange, film appreciation group, or a community of museum-goers, you have an amazing foundation for conversation built into the event. Your shared passions can be a stepping stone into chat about your background, your work, your hobbies, your creative goals, and so much more. From there, stick to these best practices:

• Ask lots of questions — People want to feel engaged by their conversation partners. In fact, the American Psychological Association has published research indicating that people who ask more questions are better liked by their conversation partners than people who ask fewer questions. Your questions can be as broad as “What career would you have if you could choose anything?” or as specific as “Those are awesome earrings; where did you get them?” Just use common sense to guide your questions. Don’t go too personal too fast.  

• Be an active listener — Conversations are a two-way street. Nobody wants to feel like the person they’re chatting with is barely listening or just waiting for the chance to talk about themselves again. Remember: it’s not all about you. If the other person has different interests, keep an open mind and put yourself in their shoes. When you’re really listening to what the other person has to say, it’s much easier to respond and keep the conversation flowing. 

• Be yourself — Don’t let your nerves convince you that you have to put up some kind of false exterior or made-up persona in order to appear interesting to others. Most people have a strong radar for fakery and can tell when someone’s not being genuine with them. Who you are is more than good enough! So go into your conversations with confidence and honesty. 

• Be complimentary — You’re not the only one feeling a little anxious about making connections with new people. Therefore, it takes more than overcoming your own nerves to help conversation blossom. You can take some of the pressure off your conversation partner and help them feel relaxed by offering a simple compliment. Plus, focusing your attention onto them can help you get out of your own head. A comment as simple as “I like your shoes” can be a gateway into many minutes of chat.  

• Be courageous — Once in a while, conversation with someone you don’t know comes naturally. It feels like you’ve been friends for years. More often, though, it takes a bit of effort, and there may be fits and starts. Don’t let the fear of a few awkward moments prevent you from forming new connections. Dig deep and discover your bravery. You’ll realize that a bit of turbulence along the way is totally normal, and the destination is so worth it.  

More strategies for different stages of your social journey 

Maybe you’ve tried some of these tips, but you’re still having trouble developing past small talk to actual friendship. Maybe all of this sounds like a scary dive off the deep end. Don’t worry! Getting comfortable with chatting is a process, not an on/off button. There is no test: you’re not failing simply because you’re facing some challenges. If anything, those challenges are helping you gain experience and grow. 

To make things easier, you could bring a friend you already know to your next Meetup event. In a social situation where you don’t know most people, one friend can be a safety net. But try to make sure you spend some time apart making new connections before reconvening. Another strategy is to try an online event before meeting in person. This allows you to establish yourself with the group in a low-pressure environment, so you’ll have a little confidence boost when you meet other members IRL.  

Keeping in mind that getting better at conversation takes practice, you can commit to working on your small talk skills by making your own Meetup group like David Good. He’s a self-described introvert who shared his guide to friendship on the Keep Connected podcast with Meetup CEO David Siegel. You can easily create your own Meetup group like David’s West Michigan Geeks and invite others to join you on your social journey.

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Order your cappuccino in Italian, navigate Paris with ease, or make a new friend in Beijing. Before you pack your bags to wander the streets of Santiago or Tokyo or Berlin, satiate your wanderlust and learn a language! The world expands when you know more languages, and soon, we’ll be able to explore it again. Learning a new language is a fun and productive way to pass the time. It’s not only great exercise for your brain, but it’s a gateway to a new world of connections.

Why you should learn a new language

If adding destinations to your bucket list was one way you got through the pandemic, get a head start and learn the language spoken at your next vacation spot. While you can get by speaking English in many places around the world, speaking the native language wherever you travel is a great way to connect with others and find more authentic experiences. Chat with locals, understand the culture, and experience the world outside of touristy must-see lists.

Learning a new language means making new friends! Meet others who are learning the same language. Connect with native speakers you never would have met otherwise. Also, you can brush up on your social skills by making small talk in your new language! 

Outside of authentic experiences and new friends, learning a new language has many cognitive benefits. Bilingualism boosts your creativity, empathy, concentration, and memory. It can lead to better conflict management, problem-solving, and listening skills. Bilingualism is also proven to protect against cognitive aging, including Alzheimer’s disease. Regardless of when you learn your second language, all of these benefits apply. Plus, once you learn a language, it’s easier to learn more! Polyglotism, here we come.

How to start learning a new language

Immersion is one of the best ways to learn a new language, but that doesn’t mean you have to travel. Surround yourself in the language however you can: label your belongings to memorize vocabulary, watch foreign films, journal, listen to podcasts, or memorize songs in your new language. Incorporate the language into your everyday habits and you’ll be immersed without needing to leave your home. So, binge watch that telenovela, sing along to K-pop, and fill your new language diary with your deepest secrets—no one’s judging.

Some tools that can help with memorization include Duolingo, Lingodeer, Memrise, and Rosetta Stone. If you’re learning Spanish, News in Slow Spanish can help. 

It might feel daunting to aim for fluency, but you can start out small and learn a few phrases. Even if you don’t become fluent, knowing some basics in your chosen language can help you connect with others wherever you go.

How community can support your language-learning journey

So you’ve memorized the words for your furniture and verb conjugations no longer terrify you: congrats! Memorizing vocabulary is a necessary step, but practicing the language with others is also important. There are nearly 5,000 language exchange groups on Meetup, so there is plenty to explore. From online art gallery tours to cooking classes to conversations, these groups offer a variety of events to help you learn your new language. Most groups are open to all language ability levels, so check out an event! Here are some groups to explore:

• Inglés-Español Intercambio 
• German Conversation Club Munich 
• Casual French Speaking
• The Vancouver Mandarin Chinese Club 
• Italian English Language Social and Cultural Exchange 
• The San Francisco ASL Group
• Mundo Lingo New York City 

Besides groups dedicated to language exchange, there are Meetup groups for any and all interests, including those that speak your new language. Find a dance lesson, book club, drawing class, knitting circle, or any other event that you’d love to attend, where your new language is spoken. Practicing your language with native speakers is a great way to learn a language, and online events on Meetup make it easy. Daydream about your adventures abroad, then show off your language skills when you finally explore the world.

If you can’t find the perfect language group for you, start one! You don’t have to be an expert to start a group, and there are others like you ready to learn. Get started here.

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As summer slips away from the northern hemisphere, it seems like all the land puts on its greatest show. The autumn foliage may be the most captivating piece of natural scenery that mother nature provides. This season is “a second spring when every leaf is a flower,” as Albert Camus once phrased it. From crisp yellows and burnt oranges to the very deepest red and ochre, woodlands are suddenly crowned with a new majesty before the long sleep of winter. 

The allure of fall leaves creates so many opportunities for quality time in the great outdoors. Not only can you bask in a landscape that looks as if it were painted by hand, but you can also discover physical and spiritual nourishment. Outdoor activities often associated with leaf-peeping, like hiking and biking, contribute to essential cardiovascular fitness. Plus, these can easily be made into spaces for social connection, which is vital for mental health. 

Your presence of mind while enjoying the natural splendor, combined with some moderate physical exertion, acts as a kind of ecotherapy. This contributes to everything from lower blood pressure and reduced stress to positive self-esteem and decreased risk of depression. For these reasons, and for the simple wonder of pretty colors, autumn is the perfect time to plan some outdoor adventures.  

How to make the most of leaf-peeping season 

If you really want to take full advantage of this spectacular seasonal showcase, don’t leave things to chance. There are lots of helpful resources that can help you pinpoint where and when to spot the best leaves, like this map of the peak fall foliage in New England.

Keep in mind a few factors that determine the timing of peak foliage. As a general rule of thumb, areas in the north tend to experience fall earlier, with southern latitudes often lagging behind for a few weeks. But like any rule of thumb, there are exceptions here! Places at higher altitude, such as the mile high city of Denver, dip into autumn well before cities like New York that are more northern but lie at very minimal elevation.  

Activities that naturally pair with fall foliage 

Some people plan outings to do nothing more than look at the beautiful trees. But you may find it helpful to add another layer of motivation to your leaf-peeping itinerary. This way, you not only have a great excuse to get outdoors, but you also create a more enriching experience that combines natural wonder with physical fitness and the spirit of community. 

For example, on Wednesday, October 4, you could go birdwatching in the Dan Ryan Woods with Chicago Hiking, Outdoors, & Social Group. This community of more than 30,000 members will be enveloped in fall foliage while a trained naturalist from the Forest Preserves of Cook County organization helps them discover migratory and residential birds.  

For something more intentionally fall-focused, you could join Asheville Nature, Wisdom and Wellness Events for a harvest festival on Sunday, October 15. This Meetup group of nearly 150 members will participate in a traditional ceremony, giving thanks to the cycles of nature, and embracing its constant change. This event will take place at the Sacred Fire Council House, which will be abundantly decorated with natural gifts from the surrounding area. 

For a truly life-affirming experience of autumn beyond the fall foliage, you could join Magic Hour Adventures for a sunrise hike in Valley Forge National Historic Park, just 20 miles outside of downtown Philadelphia. On Friday, October 20, this Meetup group of more than 400 members will witness a new dawn climb over the horizon and wash the hills in gold.  

More ways to celebrate the passing season 

Even if the leaves don’t change where you are, there are still plenty of meaningful autumn activities you can pursue, such as: 

• Baking — You can fill your home with the aroma of fall without needing to be an expert baker. Check out this seasonal recipe for easy apple crisp with oat topping.  

• Pumpkin carving — For lots of people, the first day of fall is the official start of Halloween season. Most grocery stores will have pumpkins even if they don’t grow in your area. And if you think pumpkin carving is only about jack-o-lanterns, think again! Here’s a list of 75 creative pumpkin carving designs.  

• Plein air painting — Bring your creative eye to the outdoors and capture some of that magic. Even if the leaves don’t turn bright colors, you can still appreciate the changing of the sunlight and its effect on local scenery with a Meetup group like Dallas Art Circle.  

Maintain your connection with nature throughout the year 

The essence of fall is a sense of fleeting beauty—it always seems to go by too fast. Follow this guide to make the most of autumn while it lasts, then keep up the habit of planning outdoor activities all throughout the calendar year. You can even create your own Meetup group and invite others to appreciate each season’s majesty in different ways.

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Professional networking is one of the core Meetup topics, with more than 12 million members taking part in nearly 15,000 groups worldwide. Networking events are so popular because they appeal to so many different kinds of people: those early in their careers, highly experienced individuals with mentorship to offer, candidates who are between jobs, and more. 

However, with such a large number of networking events taking place, and such a wide variety of subtopics (i.e., the happy-hour-with-kindergarten-teachers to real-estate-investors-workshop continuum), it can be intimidating to jump in. Plus, the art of “putting yourself out there” may seem challenging to master, let alone to begin.  

With all of that in mind, take a moment to explore the potentially life-changing benefits of attending a networking event. This simple guide will help you discover the right kinds of professional groups that reflect your goals, and will give you all the tools you need to participate in a networking event with confidence.  

What networking events can do for you

Networking is, of course, about expanding your network. These events allow you to meet people in your industry, or people in an entirely new profession you’re considering for a mid-career shift. 

For some, a networking event represents a forum where you can hear about new business opportunities and establish working relationships with potential partners or clients. For others, the main purpose of attending a networking event is to develop camaraderie and a sense of mutual support with people who understand the ups and downs of your job.  

No matter your approach to networking, there are social benefits that apply to everyone. For example, when you attend a networking event, you’re certain to practice public speaking. As you meet more people, you’ll quickly get better at articulating yourself, being yourself, and knowing when a genuine connection has formed. Networking can often feel like exercise or healthy dieting—a good practice that takes a little effort and commitment, with major rewards in store.  

Not all networking events are the same  

There are plenty of ways to bump elbows with people in your sphere, from straightforward meet and greets to professional development workshops and fun outside-the-box events. 

For example, the Brooklyn Creative And Entrepreneur Network hosts a “Speed Networking & Business MatchMaking” night. This Meetup group of more than 7,000 members takes the concept of speed dating and applies the “dating” part to potential career opportunities.  

Some communities help you connect through mutual learning. Ironhack Chicago: Tech Careers, Learning and Networking is a Meetup group that teaches the basics of programming and web development to nearly 850 members looking to boost their careers.  

Others opt for a more casual approach, and let the mingling take its natural course. First Friday Charleston-Professional Networking Happy Hour, a Meetup group of more than 4,400 members, draws huge crowds to their monthly event which features a different local brewery each time. Network After Work – Houston Networking Events, a Meetup group of more than 15,000 members, regularly gathers at the House of Blues for drinks, music, and conversation between seasoned pro networkers and people just getting started. 

How to make the most of a networking event 

The first step should happen before you arrive at the event. You want to go in with a goal, but a lowkey and moderate one. If your goal is to get hired by the end of the night, you may end up frustrated and disappointed. However, if your goal is to make at least one connection with someone in your industry, the road to success will be much easier to follow.  

Just showing up to a networking event—taking the time to be there physically or virtually in that dedicated space—takes some courage, and you should be proud of yourself for that. Use this budding confidence to help you talk to people you don’t know. If you’re rusty with meeting new people, take a minute beforehand to learn five simple steps that will improve your introductions.  

Whenever you do make an introduction, be sure to remain present, and really listen to your conversation partner. In other words, don’t just wait for your turn to speak. Engage with what the other person has to say by asking follow-up questions. This demonstrates a genuine interest, expands the discussion into new territory, and helps establish a foundation for further connection in the future. If you happen to exchange contact information with someone you meet at a networking event, be sure to reach out within the next week, even if it’s just to thank them for a nice chat.  

How to start networking today 

Join some professional networking groups on Meetup, and you’ll make a few points of contact even before you attend an event. You can also create your own Meetup networking group and invite friends and colleagues to join you in supporting each other’s career journeys.

Find events, join groups, and communicate with your people—from anywhere. Download the Meetup app today!

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Spend a little time making sure the youngest guests at your function have a blast. In this article, we’ll be covering advice from experts on how to wow the crowd at your next family-friendly event. 

Bring your next zoo trip to life

When was the last time you appreciated the wide world of animals? Animals can be a great source of joy and inspiration. For a fun and family-friendly outing, check out your local zoo or aquarium. Pro tip: Follow your local zoo or aquarium on social media for updates on special attractions, including performances, craft days, and more.

One of the most prolific scholars of the animal kingdom, Dr. Jane Goodall, has insights from her work with great apes that relate to the development of humans in her class on MasterClass. For example, both chimps and humans are extremely social animals. As Jane explains, the first years of development are some of the most foundational for chimps and humans alike.

For this reason, it’s important to bring your child along to social events and introduce them to new activities. Meeting new people at any age can help foster empathy and new ways of thinking. Also, exposing your child to new experiences can help them find out what they enjoy in life and learn to pursue their own interests. 

To spend more time with animals, check out Meetup groups like the Toronto Nature Lovers, or start your own.

Get excited about the wild, wonderful world of science

In his class on MasterClass, experienced professor and public intellectual Dr. Neil deGrasse Tyson compares conducting scientific research to exploring a new continent. In both cases, one is standing on the frontier between what is known and unknown. 

As a prolific public speaker, Neil has had the opportunity to speak to a diverse range of audiences including college students, the press, politicians, and countless others. His advice for explaining new concepts to people without a scientific background can be useful for any parent tasked with explaining something complex to a child. His advice? Know your audience!
By “know your audience,” Neil means that speakers think about how their audience will receive what they’re explaining based on what they know about them. Speak to children in terms they understand. Think about reference points they may have: movies, books, experiences, and more than you can mention to explain a point. Learn more about science and science communication with MasterClass.

Turn any playdate into a home concert

Making music doesn’t require a special trip to the music store or years of lessons. Your next jam session could take place right in your kitchen. Famed drummer and singer Sheila E. explains how an impromptu performance can be an experience that is as social as it is musical. Share this magical experience with your children by carving out some time for making music at home. 

Follow Sheila’s tips for making a jam session a total hit from her class on MasterClass.  

• Find your rhythm. Practice with grooves that feel good to you. When you’re ready, learn to play with other people. 
• Keep time. Drumming is the backbone of the music. You’re the arbiter of time. Don’t rush, don’t drag. Keep it steady at the right tempo. 
• Stay dynamic. Think about how playing louder or softer can affect the mood of the music. 
• Know when not to play. Like any conversation, you have to know when the best contribution is staying silent. Hang back to create contrast and allow other players to shine. 

For opportunities to play music with locals, check out groups like NYC Jazz Musicians Hang, Salt Lake City Music Meetup Group, and Bluegrass Jams in and around NYC on Meetup!

Bring an art group to the next level (or organize your own!)

Construction paper, scissors, and watercolor sets are classroom staples in most elementary schools. Art has the potential to expand a child’s creativity and provide valuable practice for improved motor skills and attention spans. Consider planning arts and crafts activities at your next party. 

Step up your art skills with help from a professional. Devon Rodriguez (@devonrodriguezart) is one of the most viewed visual artists on TikTok, with more than 25 million followers. His series of portraits depicting passengers on the NYC subway has been described as traditional 19th-century European portraiture with a contemporary flair. In his class on MasterClass, Devon walks viewers through his technique for working with charcoal, oil paints, and more. 

One of Devon’s exercises is to paint a subject based on a reference photo. When using a photo as a reference for another type of artwork, Devon explains that choosing the right photo is key. You’ll want a photo with sharp contrasts between light and dark to make it easier to translate to another medium later on. 

Like any other talent, drawing and painting are skills that practice to improve over time. To get some more experience with visual arts, check out art groups near you like Central Park Sketching & Art Meetup Group, Art Circle- Delhi, or The Seattle International Figure Drawing Group. 

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